也许这样行得通
function remove_post() {
            if(isset($_POST[\'post_id\']) && is_numeric($_POST[\'post_id\'])) {
                $post = get_post($_POST[\'post_id\']);
                if(get_current_user_id() == $post->post_author) { 
                     $args = array(
                             \'post_parent\' => $_POST[\'post_id\']
                 );
                 $post_attachments = get_children($args);
                     if($post_attachments) {
                            foreach ($post_attachments as $attachment) {
                                      wp_delete_attachment($attachment->ID, true);
                            }
                     }
                          wp_delete_post($_POST[\'post_id\'], true);
                }
            }  
            exit;
}
 添加的代码
function get_attachment_id_from_src ($image_src) {
  global $wpdb;
  $query = "SELECT ID FROM {$wpdb->posts} WHERE guid=\'$image_src\'";
  $id = $wpdb->get_var($query);
  return $id;
}
if(!empty($_POST[\'avatar_id\'])  && $_POST[\'avatar_id\'] != get_user_meta($current_user->id, \'custom_avatar\', true) && empty( $_POST[\'remove_avatar\'])) {
        update_user_meta($current_user->id, \'custom_avatar\', esc_attr( $_POST[\'avatar_id\']));
    } elseif(!empty( $_POST[\'remove_avatar\']) && $_POST[\'remove_avatar\'] == 1) {
                $avatar_url = get_user_meta($current_user->id, \'custom_avatar\', true);
                $attachment_delete = get_attachment_id_from_src($avatar_url);
                wp_delete_attachment($attachment_delete, true);
        update_user_meta( $current_user->id, \'custom_avatar\', \'-1\');
    }